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Mother in law controls the roost

June 21, 2008

Hi, I’m 26 and my husband is 31. My confessionis that I cannot bear my mother in law. I am doing everything I can to avoid her. I am making excuses every time arrangements are made so I don’t have to see her.

She is very controlling of my husband and he lets her get away with it, which make me angry at him. I then get cross with him, but I don’t tell him why, he get so frustrated with me and we have awful arguments. She has also tried to control me, she is very clever in the way she manipulates everyone. Unless everything is done just the way she wants it, she has the ability to cause an atmosphere without saying a word or she might make a sharp cutting remark and no one says a word.

My husband is not aware of my feelings. We have been married only one year, but he is getting suspicious that something is not right and I‘m sure she has said something to him about me.

I love my husband and have kept my feeling quiet because I don’t want to hurt him or cause a row, but I feel that this can’t go on. Really I’m not sure what to do, I have this awful feeling that there is going to be a big family fight whatever I do any ideas what I can do?

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